| Increase in number of divorces after marriage or | | | | Bob: I will give you the money you need but you |
| breakup even before the couple marries is the hard | | | | won't work from now on. You need to take care of |
| fact through which currently the human race is | | | | yourself. |
| passing. Getting into relationships 'n' number of times | | | | Jenny: You cannot rule me this way. Sorry but I |
| and then breaking up just because their better half | | | | cannot leave my work. |
| becomes their bitter half is the de-facto of | | | | (Silence prevailed there after...) |
| relationships today. Although both the man and the | | | | Here Bob cares for Jenny and hence said all what |
| woman are responsible for breakups in relationships, | | | | you read but he overlooked the fact that Jenny |
| here we will try to analyze how change in behavior | | | | never wanted a solution for her problem. She just |
| of males could force a change in behavior of females. | | | | wanted him to listen to her problem and expected a |
| While the relationship is in its infancy men can even | | | | reply like "You are a hard working girl dear and this is |
| stand upside down to bring a smile on her face. He | | | | why I love you. Just tell me whenever you need |
| will call her daily, keep note of the small problems | | | | me." |
| which she is facing and leave all his important work | | | | In such situations (shown in conversations above), |
| just to make her feel warm, loving and cozy. He | | | | when she complains that he always thinks against her |
| unknowingly understands the fact that she loves to | | | | wishes, he will go on to reason that she is being too |
| share her thoughts with him. He would listen to her | | | | critical and demanding even when he is trying to |
| and later on regularly make the same mistake i.e. he | | | | solve her problems. He feels unappreciated and |
| starts solving those problems even when she | | | | confused. And after that he won't ever realize how |
| expects him to listen to her problems only. | | | | easily he shifted from being close and caring to being |
| Let us take an example of an unmarried couple Bob | | | | distant and unresponsive. |
| and Jenny who have been dating for almost two | | | | We have also talked about how men start giving |
| years. On one regular Saturday evening date the | | | | importance to larger sized gifts once their relationship |
| conversation starts: | | | | grows and to earn for those huge gifts they forget |
| Bob: You're looking tired? | | | | to give time to their better half. Once again, they |
| Jenny: Yeah, there was double work this week at | | | | become distant even when they are working for her. |
| office. | | | | Hence males need to realize that she loved him |
| Bob: Why don't you leave your job? | | | | because of the excitement and understanding nature, |
| Jenny: But I love it. | | | | which he showed. He needs to continue with that old |
| Bob: What is so good in it when it leaves you tired? | | | | style of his if he wants the charm of their relationship |
| Jenny: This was a rare case honey, else I love my | | | | to continue. |
| work. It pays me well and helps me explore myself. | | | | |